After 4 months of talking I understood that possessiveness will come on your partner.
I don’t know whether it is correct or wrong to have because I never spoke with any girl and never spent time in understanding a girl behaviour.
Just now reading “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” book after engagement for understanding ladies.
One thing I am clear :
Possessiveness makes a person (even saints also) thinks narrow mindedly ..I am feeling that I lost some of my good qualities like spiritual things. She complained . Now understood I am behaving like a normal person .. So I woke up.